Older couple only gets invited to events when a gift is expected, but never receives an invitation for holiday gatherings.

"I and several other girl/boyfriends have been removed ... If he attends, it sends the message that he does. I'd decline the invitation and drop the couple from my social calendar." ...

Getty Later, the poster received the official wedding invitation via email, which noted that the affair was a black-tie event and would be held outside in Manhattan. In addition, the couple noted ...